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Nobody has the right to 'allow' a woman to take care of her parents. Allah has given us that responsibility. A good man would never disallow his wife to take care of her parents. Like we fight for our rights, we should also fight and be vocal about taking care of our parents after marriage. These things should be discussed before hand between the potential husband and wife.
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To be honest I’ve seen daughters supporting their parents more than their son. Son get married and get busy in their own families, there might be some percentage who takes care of their parent. But mostly it’s daughters supporting parents even after marriage
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It is also the daughter's responsibility to look after her ageing parents but often in our so-called Islamic society the husband and the inlaws disapprove if she goes to look after her parents and she has to face unpleasant circumstances.
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It's responsibility of both son as well daughter but unfortunately we value our culture more than our religion ...
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Parents are not responsibility, they are blessing from Allah Almighty and the reason of our existance, please avoid such kind of questions.
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I totally agree with this. Taking care of parents is also a daughters' responsibility and you just can't deny it by saying we have other responsibilities like taking care of inlaws and husband. One must prioritize something for which you'll be answered at the day of judgement. When a woman can do so much then why can't she share responsibility of her parents. I would also like to add that men should let their wives actively participate in taking care of her parents. A wise man would always allow and be part of taking care of his wife's parents just like the woman takes care of his parents, children and home.
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Because , usually daughters go far after marriage .. Because sometimes they live busy with husband and inlaws. Because they have more load to look after their family in husband's parents too...in case of illness they became so much busy with them.. Islam.. doesn't allow any woman to go out with out husband's permission ... Yes ...if daughter is living freely ...so she has same responsibility like son..
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If every lady start taking care of their parent in laws then there no need to worry about their own parents
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Considering the fact that you are talking about Islam...women rely on their husbands financially...so looking after parents' financial needs is purely son's responsibility...otherwise looking after the parents is both sons' and daughters responsibility...
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Because those daughters are busy fulfilling the responsibilities of their husbands, children, and in laws (the last ones not being farz but ehsaan). That happens in majority of the cases unfortunately so they hardly get time to look after their parents. Still, they try to do whatever they can in their capacities. I've seen working married daughters supporting their parents when they have no such financial responsibility either. Irony how easy it is to blame women in our society who are already oppressed and do shit loads of things they aren't supposed to. Hmare mazhab may to women have full rights to have full time house helps and caretakers for their own chores, still they end up being unpaid, unacknowledged servants yet no one talks about that religious aspect.
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So there is no any place for these question in our religion and culture .. i have seen many daughters who are managing their parents and inlaws as well...
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Questions aside but one should feel lucky if ALLAH TALA gave him opportunity to Takecare of his parents-Maybe ALLAH TALA chosen you for that instead of other people- And there is no such things in Islam both daughter and son need to takecare of his or her parents but we value or culture more.
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In Islam as per my knowledge man's first responsibility is his mother, than father and then his wife and kids, Also that is a reason that son got two shares as financially he had taken care of the parents too along with his wife and kid and at the day of judgement man will be questioned about his parents. On the other hand on a woman first right is of her husband also financially women are dependent upon their husbands so every time they need to pay for their parents bills she has to lend money from the husband and mostly husbands are not very generous about it. Secondly in our society mostly women are not allowed to go so frequently to their parents home so they feel helpless here. Due to this weak position they were not burdened with this duty and they are given half share in inheritance. But having said that it is never forbidden for daughters to take care of their parents, if they can take care of them then they should. And they will be rewarded for every good deed they do for their parents.
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