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better is that he should start travelling with some tourism companies and start interacting with his cousin or any known persons more and more.
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start gym, a healthy body increases confidence in person. Play sports like tennis, table tennis, squash or whatever he likes. Will automatically interact with others
Haris Bin Abid yes exactly
worhty
Haris Bin Abid Table tenis Adnan Arshad :P
Waseem akram there is not any cousin , brother, friend. There is not a single male person in his life as I mentioned in the post there are a lot of things that I did not mention otherwise it would have become lengthy post
Adil Adil but he should travel with some companies
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Firstly, there is nothing wrong to be innocent. If he is not like others, it is a very positive things.. he may want to become like someone, but it may happen after compromising some of the good habbits he already has. I think first he should embrace and accept himself and do not have to feel underestimated about who he is. Now if there are things he want to improve in his personality.. then yes there are alot of ways and courses and videos which can help him. It may take from 30 days to 6 months for his persinality to develop in order to cope with this modern world around. It will take sometime and practice to build confident and personality and positive habbits.
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start gym, a healthy body increases confidence in person. Play sports like tennis, table tennis, squash or whatever he likes. Will automatically interact with others
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Very good suggestions indeed... Sports are great way to develop self confidence and social interactions.. You should start with it.
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You have to find out someone who around you like neighbor hood or colleagues someone near and close to you...! That will be the opportunity to spend some extra time with to understand the world you have in your mind to explore it how is it (world) good, bad or excited...! Good luck
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There is not anyone
Adil Adil There will be and must be, you have to find out with patience and politely...!
Umer Farooq there is not anyone
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Firstly, He should not worry. Allah is with Him. Secondly, his situation is understandable. Some people have given some good suggestions above about going on tours and starting some exercise where he can meet new people. He should also start going to the Masjid. He might meet new and decent people there. He can also join an Islamic weekly classes to meet some good like minded educated people (I can recommend). Allah will help him become more confident, In'sha'Allah. Lastly, I'm here if he wants someone to talk to online. I have lived in different places, interacted with different nationalities of people, lived different types of lives. He can inbox message me here on fb. May Allah Bless him & you.
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Rizwan Walayat well nice bro
Rizwan walayat it can be done but he cant do it alone I mean going outside he obviously needs someone
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I think this behavior of boy is because of staying in comfort zone (if not any psychological issue) for long, plan small tasks to help him to get out of it (travelling, small group discussions on open ended topics, public speaking, questioning) these activities will help him change his introvert type behavior by changing his perception about others.
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Yeah there is not any psychological issue .you are right this is possibley due to staying in comfort zone and there is not a single male person with whom he can go so then its of no use(trips)
There is no brother no cousin no friend no chacha taya etc no male person in his life
does he has any habits or hobbies ?
Aleem Javed no .he stays 24 7 in house .never moved out of the house not even on friday for jumma and all the boys and men offer jumma ...i hope i have made you clear ...his situation is becoming worse day by day he has started hating males now and at the same time he feels scared amongst males sometimes whenever he goes out so he cant go to masjid atleast as that is occupied with males and probably cant go ever until he finds atleast a single friend
he is physically very weak and having soft body soft voice tone like girls looks too innocent that may be a reason for feeling scared amongst males as males have hard body and they are strong
Adil Adil it is perfectly fine. lets just start with a simple task. A walk early morning in any park.
Morning walk is not possible for now. You are advising a bold thing which can never happen I mean he cant go alone all of a sudden
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There is nothing wrong in having a personality like this... One who is most close to him should start taking him to social situations and gradually expose him to more people... in this case something that can change the most is a gradual exposure to the right kind of people who will be willing to provide him with support and experience without making or making fun of him. If in first few encounters he gets scared etc give him time with small groups of people to open up... once he is comfortable enough start leaving him with strangers so that he can start initiating conversations on his own...
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can i message you privately?
Adil Adil sure... you can inbox me...
I am just messaging you now .will pay salam in private message box .but can I talk to you about this tomorrow ?
Adil Adil sure no problem..
Arslan Ulhaq kindly see the private message box
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If you have time, inbox me please. It's difficult to type all the important aspects coming to my mind. It'll be very lengthy, both to type and read. But remember my friend, too many cooks spoil the broth. Keep this only to a couple of people who offer their advices and help.
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Okay
Thank you
You want to talk on a call or on messages ?
Adil Adil check your inbox please.
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Move him out of his comfort zone slowly by time.. like do some outing with 4,5 cousins and family members with him in which it needs to interact with people.. like in any sports clubs etc.. or other option can be to work at any pharmacy, or shop where he will interact with alot of different people under supervision of any elder person. and he should have strong faith in Allah, start praying and trying.. he will be OK in few months in Sha Allah.
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there is not a single cousin with whom he can go out
family he nahe hai jaisey logon ki hoti
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Should start sports , gym and prayer in masjid with jamaat Interaction automatically hna shuru hojaegii
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Haseeb Ahmad please help this guy.
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